Helping you integrate the borderline personality

Borderline patients are emotionally dysregulated, highly attuned to others, and struggling to understand why they are different from those around them. This module is dedicated to understanding childhood impacts of abuse, control, and neglect, while also learning how to grieve traumatized and dissociated parts of ourselves.

Borderline patients often mislabel their emotions, and one of the most common mislabeled emotions is empathy. Understanding empathy from a new lens, understanding where the mislabeling is taking place, and being able to relearn how to label these emotions, reality, and body language can drastically impact how empaths behave going forward. Additionally, it is important to understand the defense mechanisms at play that create the distortions, psychosis, mislabeling of emotions,and hyper-empathic behavior.

This module is focused on a vital phase of childhood called separation, which comes before individuation. Understanding this phase and how it impacts borderline patients, pathological narcissists, and children in general, can help one understand the injury that took place in childhood, causing one to be the way that they are. Even better, it opens the door to untangling psychosis, entering reality, and clearing the path for long-term healing.

This module is focused on a second vital phase of childhood called individuation. Understanding this phase and how it impacts borderline patients, pathological narcissists, and children in general, can help aid in the creation of a stable self again. Borderline patients tend to erode their own sense of self in order to avoid abandonment, and the individuation phase corrects for this error.

Individuals diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and individuals diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder often find themselves in relationships with one another. This is because their fantasy defenses are a perfect match made in heaven. This module describes the fantasy defenses of each, why they have such a high affinity and chemistry, the underlying psychodynamics, and how they can learn to see reality with a clearer lens.

This module is focused on the development of healthy narcissism and the integration of the dissociated split self. Healthy narcissism differs from pathological narcissism in that it does not lack the ability to also acknowledge others in the process of loving oneself. Individuation is all about developing healthy boundaries and defining the bounds of you vs. others. Part of becoming your own individual is knowing exactly who you are and defining it with clear boundaries, which define exactly where you begin and where you end. This can include your thoughts, beliefs, wants, needs, desires, dreams, likes, and dislikes. This module is here to help you explore this. Integrating missing segments of a healthy and whole personality allows borderline patients to reduce splitting, emotional dysregulation, psychosis, dissociation, self-harm, etc.